Thursday, December 31, 2009

NGUZO SABA (The Seven Principles) - Kuumba (Creativity)

To do always as much as we can, in the way we can, in order to leave our community more beautiful and beneficial than we inherited it.
How to Practice Kuumba
Kuumba, described as "creativity," is observed on the sixth day during the Kwanzaa holiday season which runs from December 26 through January 1 every year. According to the tenets of Kwanzaa, being creative in all avenues of life can foster unexpected opportunities to improve its general quality. Unleashing your creativity in a variety of ways will not only open your mind to a plethora of unforeseen possibilities, but can also allow you to see deep within yourself and decide which areas of your life should take priority.
  1. Join an organization in the community that encourages Kuumba. There are varieties of city-sponsored creative arts programs as well as diverse types of recreation areas that can be used to encourage creativity in youths and adults. Your local community center provides an ideal starting point.
  2. Evaluate areas of your life that are in need of Kuumba. Typically, routines are a prime area for creative integration.
  3. Create your own Kuumba group or organization in the community. Figure out what you are passionate about, then let the creative juices flow. For example, you could create a performance arts show that sends a message to the audience about how to creatively live out all seven principles during Kwanzaa.
  4. Write a story or book and publish it either in print or on the Internet. One of the best ways to practice Kuumba during Kwanzaa is through reading or creating the written word. Many children first experience an opening of their Kuumba sides through the reading of stories.
  5. Practice Kuumba this Kwanzaa season by creating music, whether singing or playing an instrument. Take an unconventional approach to your music by letting your thoughts out of the box and exploring areas in your musical mind that are unfamiliar and underutilized.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

NGUZO SABA (The Seven Principles) - Nia (Purpose)

To make our collective vocation the building and developing of our community in order to restore our people to their traditional greatness.
How to Practice Nia
Nia, which is observed during the fifth day of Kwanzaa, is defined as purpose. You can obtain purpose in life by serving others in a variety of ways. This was essential to the teachings of Dr. Martin Luther King, who stated that "service is the substance of greatness." To achieve greatness, we must practice serving others and understand sacrifice, so that we may be lifted up to higher levels of thought and obtain higher positions in life.
  1. Serve your spouse and your immediate family in all that you do.
  2. Act in a service capacity at work or on the job. You should diligently serve your employer by giving 100 percent in all of your job functions and duties on a daily basis.

Serve as a Volunteer

  1. Volunteer at a retirement or convalescent home. Kwanzaa teaches that we must respect and learn from our elders, as they often have an advanced understanding of life.
  2. Work in the educational school system in your area. This provides a wonderful opportunity to be a part of children's lives in a positive way and to have an impact on the future of your community.
  3. Give your time in a local soup kitchen that provides those who are less fortunate with basic items such as food and temporary shelter.
  4. Offer your services at a local library. They are frequently in need of helpers to restock books, read stories to children or participate in administrative tasks.
  5. Serve as a volunteer at your local church. Here is where you can impact the lives of others on a spiritual and eternal plane. True Nia ultimately begins with the inner spiritual area of one's life.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

NGUZO SABA (The Seven Principles) - Ujamaa (Cooperative Economics)

To build and maintain our own stores, shops and other businesses and to profit from them together.
How to Practice Ujamaa
Ujamaa, practiced on the fourth day of Kwanzaa, is defined during Kwanzaa as "cooperative economics." Cooperative economics offers everyone a fair and equal chance to work and enjoy life through relationships and the goods of this world. It is recommended to stop governmental and private corruption, unnecessary plunder, community pollution and resource depletion.
Choosing to practice Ujamaa can lead individual communities and large nations alike to become economically cooperative with other places around the world.
  1. Try to influence leaders in your local community to support and enforce an equal and fair world trading system. By working together, all members of a society can benefit from trading items and technology with each other. Ideally, the end result would be a fair and economic world trade system allowing members of all societies the opportunity to prosper and enjoy life.
  2. Petition for fair wages in your community. The Ujamaa day celebrated during Kwanzaa can be an important time to voice your concerns about the average societal wage. Gather others in your community and voice your opinions together.
  3. Strive for fair opportunities for all members of society, no matter their background, race, religion or educational status.
  4. Collaborate with other members of your community to protect the economic and commercial spheres from greed and evil. Individuals cannot accomplish this without the communal help of local business owners, corporate officers and governmental officials.
  5. Display honest behavior in all your business and personal dealings. Utilizing a checks and balance system for economic commerce can help guide individuals and corporations in preserving an honest and ethical behavior pattern.


Monday, December 28, 2009

NGUZO SABA (The Seven Principles) - Ujima (Collective Work and Responsibility)

To build and maintain our community together and make our brother's and sister's problems our problems and to solve them together.
How to Practice Ujima
Ujima is defined as the idea of a culture of collective work and responsibility. Realizing that members of a community must all be working for the common good to achieve happiness and satisfaction is a key component of Ujima. You must also realize that a commitment must be made to work and raise your family with a responsible and collective work ethic that should be passed on from generation to generation.
  1. Live your life as an example to your children and your friends. You must go to work every day that you are able. Once you are there, you must work diligently, to the best of your ability.
  2. Teach your children the value of working to earn money or items. They should also be taught the value of earning respect from not only employers, but neighbors and local community members as well. Your reputation is something that you must work hard at and earn over time.
  3. Make it a point to appreciate those around you for what they do and for what they represent to you. You should always show appreciation for your spouse and your children. They are your gifts and your responsibility, so you should treasure them with all your heart.
  4. Make responsible decisions for yourself and for your family. The right choices should be made that benefit all people involved, not just you. You should take time alone for a careful evaluation of the negative implications of any decision that involves others. Then make the best informed decision to benefit the majority.
  5. Sacrifice for the common good. In order to be a good example, teacher or mentor, you must learn to occasionally sacrifice your own desires for the maximum benefit of others. This self-sacrificing characteristic will teach you many lessons in life that otherwise could never have been taught.

Sunday, December 27, 2009

NGUZO SABA (The Seven Principles) - Kujichagulia (Self-Determination)

To define ourselves, name ourselves, create for ourselves and speak for ourselves.


How to Practice Kujichagulia
http://www.ehow.com/how_2065001_practice-kujichagulia-during-kwanzaa.html

Kujichagulia is defined as self-determination by African-Americans and others of African descent during the Kwanzaa holiday. Self-determination allows people to act and speak independently on a personal and public level. It requires confidence and self-evaluation as well as motivation. It is one of the seven principles or "Nguzo Saba" of Kwanzaa and is celebrated and practiced on a single special day during Kwanzaa and ideally continued throughout the year.

  1. Plan and prioritize a list of goals that you hope to accomplish throughout your life. These can be short, medium or long term in nature. Begin the practice of Kujichagulia in relation to achieving your list of goals.
  2. Picture yourself achieving each listed goal in your life. Studies have shown that positive imaging in the mind actually allows goal seekers to obtain more confidence in the possibility of achieving their goals as well as physically relaxing their bodies and minds in preparation for that action.
  3. Learn from your mistakes by the results and outcomes of your previous decisions. The adage says that you can never learn from failure unless you have failed and you can never fail unless you have tried. Making decisions and learning from them is a part of growing and living and is also a key factor in learning self-determination.
  4. Grow in knowledge in a variety of areas and subject matters. You should continue to seek knowledge wherever and whenever you can. Knowledge is the root of all power and power within oneself is the root of self-determination.
  5. Keep your physical body healthy and active. A healthy body creates an healthy balance between emotions and intellect. To keep your mind sharp, you must consistently eat a healthy diet and stay physically active throughout your entire life.

Saturday, December 26, 2009

NGUZO SABA (The Seven Principles) - Umoja (Unity)


To strive for and maintain unity in the family, community, nation and race.
How to Practice Umoja
  1. Join an organization that has pledged to live out the practice of Umoja. This organization should be sponsoring events and informing the public about the importance of taking a unified stand on a particular issue important to your culture. The organization should also allow all of its members to live out other core principles during Kwanzaa.
  2. Volunteer in the community to practice a form of Umoja. In order to unify a community, the members should be out and about helping one another and getting to know each other. Communities function best when their members are acquainted with one another in a personal and positive way.
  3. Start a group or club in the community in an area that you are interested in and that you think would help unify the community in some way. It can be a book club, a childcare co-op or even a Bible study group. You can hold weekly or bi-weekly meetings or conferences at libraries, public recreational areas or private homes.
  4. Walk down the street with a smile on your face. Stay positive throughout the day and let some of that zest for life spill over to and inspire others who see you. You can donate a good attitude to the community whenever you are in public places.
  5. Do something to help the educational system. Most, if not all, of your future community members will have had a place in the educational system of your area. By donating time and resources, you can help to unify a strong group of future leaders.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Celebrating Kwanzaa

Preparation

There is a traditionally established way of celebrating Kwanzaa. We should therefore observe these guidelines to make our Kwanzaa the most beautiful and engaging one and to keep the tradition. Without definite guidelines and core values and practices there is no holiday.

First, you should come to the celebration with a profound respect for its values, symbols and practices and do nothing to violate its integrity, beauty and expansive meaning. Secondly, you should not mix the Kwanzaa holiday or its symbols, values and practice with any other culture. This would violate the principles of Kujichagulia (Self-Determination) and thus violate the integrity of the holiday.

Thirdly, choose the best and most beautiful items to celebrate Kwanzaa. This means taking time to plan and select the most beautiful objects of art, colorful African cloth, fresh fruits and vegetables, etc. so that every object used represents African culture and your commitment to the holiday in the best of ways.

Presentation

First, a central place in the home for the Kwanzaa Set, the symbols of Kwanzaa is chosen. A table is then spread with a beautiful piece of African cloth. Then, the mkeka (mat) is placed down and all of the other symbols are placed on it or immediately next to it to symbolize our rootedness in our tradition. Next the Kinara (candle holder) is placed on the mat and the Mishumaa Saba (seven candles) are placed in the kinara (candle holder).

The colors of Kwanzaa are black, red and green; black for the people, red for their struggle, and green for the future and hope that comes from their struggle. Therefore there is one black candle, three red and three green candles. These are the mishumaa saba (the seven candles) and they represent the seven principles. The black candle represents the first principle Umoja (unity) and is placed in the center of the kinara. The red candles represent the principles of Kujichagulia (self-determination), Ujamaa (cooperative economics) and Kuumba (creativity) and are placed to the left of the black candle. The green candles represent the principles of Ujima (collective work and responsibility), Nia (purpose) and Imani (faith) and are placed to the right of the black candle. The black candle is lit first on the first day of the celebration. And the remaining candles are lit afterwards from left to right on the following days. This procedure is to indicate that the people come first, then the struggle and then the hope that comes from the struggle.

And then the mazao (crops), and ears of corn are also placed on the mkeka. At least two ears of corn are placed down on the mat regardless of whether there are children in the immediate family or not for the children of the community belong to all of us and every adult in African tradition is considered an immediate or social parent. Next the kikombe cha umoja (the Unity cup) is then placed on the mkeka (mat). It is used to pour tambiko (libation) to the ancestors in remembrance and honor of those who paved the path down which we walk and who taught us the good, the Tamshi and the beautiful in life. Then African art objects and books on the life and culture of African people are also placed on or next to the mat to symbolize our commitment to heritage and learning.

Monday, December 21, 2009

The Symbols of Kwanzaa

Kwanzaa has seven basic symbols and two supplemental ones. Each represents values and concepts reflective of African culture and contributive to community building and reinforcement.




The basic symbols in Swahili and then in English are:




  • Mazao (The Crops) - These are symbolic of African harvest celebrations and of the rewards of productive and collective labor.

  • Mkeka (The Mat) - This is symbolic of our tradition and history and therefore, the foundation on which we build.

  • Kinara (The Candle Holder) - This is symbolic of our roots, our parent people -- continental Africans.

  • Muhindi (The Corn) - This is symbolic of our children and our future which they embody.

  • Mishumaa Saba (The Seven Candles) - These are symbolic of the Nguzo Saba, the Seven Principles, the matrix and minimum set of values which African people are urged to live by in order to rescue and reconstruct their lives in their own image and according to their own needs.

  • Kikombe cha Umoja (The Unity Cup) - This is symbolic of the foundational principle and practice of unity which makes all else possible.

  • Zawadi (The Gifts) - These are symbolic of the labor and love of parents and the commitments made and kept by the children.

http://www.officialkwanzaawebsite.org/symbols.shtml

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Kwanzaa: A Celebration of Family, Community and Culture

Kwanzaa: Roots and Branches

The Continental African Roots

Kwanzaa is an African American and Pan-African holiday which celebrates family, community and culture. Celebrated from 26 December thru 1 January, its origins are in the first harvest celebrations of Africa from which it takes its name. The name Kwanzaa is derived from the phrase "matunda ya kwanza" which means "first fruits" in Swahili, a Pan-African language which is the most widely spoken African language.

The first-fruits celebrations are recorded in African history as far back as ancient Egypt and Nubia and appear in ancient and modern times in other classical African civilizations such as Ashantiland and Yorubaland. These celebrations are also found in ancient and modern times among societies as large as empires (the Zulu or kingdoms (Swaziland) or smaller societies and groups like the Matabele, Thonga and Lovedu, all of southeastern Africa. Kwanzaa builds on the five fundamental activities of Continental African "first fruit" celebrations: ingathering; reverence; commemoration; recommitment; and celebration. Kwanzaa, then, is:

  • a time of ingathering of the people to reaffirm the bonds between them;

  • a time of special reverence for the creator and creation in thanks and respect for the blessings, bountifulness and beauty of creation;

  • a time for commemoration of the past in pursuit of its lessons and in honor of its models of human excellence, our ancestors;

  • a time of recommitment to our highest cultural ideals in our ongoing effort to always bring forth the best of African cultural thought and practice; and

  • a time for celebration of the Good, the good of life and of existence itself, the good of family, community and culture, the good of the awesome and the ordinary, in a word the good of the divine, natural and social.

Read the complete article HERE

Thursday, December 10, 2009

DR. LLAILA AFRIKA - HOW TO BE A MEAT EATER PART 4

Dr. Llaila Afrika is one of the most trusted healers we have entered the 21st century with. As one of the most sought after lecturers of the Afrikan race. Irreverent, funny and often NOT politically correct, it is not Dr. Afrika's intention to hurt feelings, but he puts most of the myths swirling around the Black community to rest. His wholistic remedies are a part of what is needed to make Afrikans whole and well again.


Monday, December 7, 2009

DR. LLAILA AFRIKA - HOW TO BE A MEAT EATER PART 3

Dr. Llaila Afrika is one of the most trusted healers we have entered the 21st century with. As one of the most sought after lecturers of the Afrikan race. Irreverent, funny and often NOT politically correct, it is not Dr. Afrika's intention to hurt feelings, but he puts most of the myths swirling around the Black community to rest. His wholistic remedies are a part of what is needed to make Afrikans whole and well again.


Friday, December 4, 2009

DR. LLAILA AFRIKA - HOW TO BE A MEAT EATER PART 2

Dr. Llaila Afrika is one of the most trusted healers we have entered the 21st century with. As one of the most sought after lecturers of the Afrikan race. Irreverent, funny and often NOT politically correct, it is not Dr. Afrika's intention to hurt feelings, but he puts most of the myths swirling around the Black community to rest. His wholistic remedies are a part of what is needed to make Afrikans whole and well again.


Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Queen Afua - Food, Fasting & Detox Part 4

From January 2008.

Queen Afua discussing food and detoxification and her yearly "shut in" to begin the New Year. During this " shut in" participants fast, do yoga, and are exposed to information and guidance to help them start the new year on the good foot. Queen Afua is the Queen of self care and shares some of her secrets as well as her vision for the City of Wellness.





Tuesday, December 1, 2009

DR. LLAILA AFRIKA - HOW TO BE A MEAT EATER PART 1

Dr. Llaila Afrika is one of the most trusted healers we have entered the 21st century with. As one of the most sought after lecturers of the Afrikan race. Irreverent, funny and often NOT politically correct, it is not Dr. Afrika's intention to hurt feelings, but he puts most of the myths swirling around the Black community to rest. His wholistic remedies are a part of what is needed to make Afrikans whole and well again.


Monday, November 30, 2009

Queen Afua - Food, Fasting & Detox Part 3

From January 2008.




Queen Afua off discussing food and detoxification and her yearly "shut in" to begin the New Year. During this " shut in" participants fast, do yoga, and are exposed to information and guidance to help them start the new year on the good foot. Queen Afua is the Queen of self care and shares some of her secrets as well as her vision for the City of Wellness.








Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Queen Afua - Food, Fasting & Detox Part 2

From January 2008.

Queen Afua starts the New Year off discussing food and detoxification and her yearly "shut in" to begin the New Year. During this " shut in" participants fast, do yoga, and are exposed to information and guidance to help them start the new year on the good foot. Queen Afua is the Queen of self care and shares some of her secrets as well as her vision for the City of Wellness.





Monday, November 23, 2009

Queen Afua - Food, Fasting & Detox Part 1

From January 2008.

Queen Afua starts the New Year off discussing food and detoxification and her yearly "shut in" to begin the New Year. During this " shut in" participants fast, do yoga, and are exposed to information and guidance to help them start the new year on the good foot. Queen Afua is the Queen of self care and shares some of her secrets as well as her vision for the City of Wellness.








Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Female/Male Yin/Yang Feminine/Masculine Part 3

Discover the TRUTH about or edcation system, "self worth," self image, male sexuality and female sexual freedom.

Part 1
Part 2




Shantam Nityama has led Tantric workshops internationally for the last 10 years. He is a master body-worker with 22 years experience in numerous healing modalities. His diverse backgroud includes Reiki Master, Polarity Therapy, Body Talk, Advanced Medical Qi Gong, Bowen Technique, Sex-to-Super Consciousness Training, Neuro-structural Integration Technique, and he was also a disciple of Tantric Master, Osho for 21 years. Nityama also leads a successful private practice in San Rafael, CA.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Ma'at - Truth, Balance, Order, Law, Morality, and Justice.

Ma'at, pronounced Muh-aht, was the Ancient Egyptian concept of truth, balance, order, law, morality, and justice. Ma'at was the goddess of harmony, order, and truth represented as a young woman, sitting or standing, holding a scepter in one hand and an ankh in the other. Sometimes she is depicted with wings on each arm or as a woman with an ostrich feather on her head. Ma'at was also personified as a goddess regulating the stars, seasons, and the actions of both mortals and the deities, who set the order of the universe from chaos at the moment of creation.

Ma'at as a principle was formed to meet the complex needs of the emergent Egyptian state that embraced diverse peoples with conflicting interests. The development of such rules sought to avert chaos and it became the basis of Egyptian law. From an early period the King would describe himself as the "Lord of Maat" who decreed with his mouth the Maat he conceived in his heart.

The significance of Ma'at developed to the point that it embraced all aspects of existence, including the basic equilibrium of the universe, the relationship between constituent parts, the cycle of the seasons, heavenly movements, religious observations and fair dealings, honesty and truthfulness in social interactions.
An abundance of life force, which is required through proper diet, adequate exercise and the avoidance of sensual excesses, is required for developing the strength to live truth. The implications of this fact are that as long as people are kept ignorant of how to cultivate their life force, and worse, kept indulging in a lifestyle characterized by wrong diet, sexual excesses, etc., they will never intuit, understand, or find the strength to live truth.

The Ancient Egyptians had a deep conviction of an underlying holiness and unity within the universe. Cosmic harmony was achieved by correct public and ritual life. Any disturbance in cosmic harmony could have consequences for the individual as well as the state. An impious King could bring about famine or blasphemy blindness to an individual. In opposition to the right order expressed in the concept of Ma'at is Isfet: chaos, lies and violence.

Ma'at bound all things together in an indestructible unity: the universe, the natural world, the state, and the individual were all seen as parts of the wider order generated by Ma'at.


Principles of MAÁT


Truth
Justice
Harmony
Balance
Order
Reciprocity
Propriety

Friday, November 13, 2009

Female/Male Yin/Yang Feminine/Masculine Part 2

Discover the TRUTH about or edcation system, "self worth," self image, male sexuality and female sexual freedom.

Continued from Part 1





Shantam Nityama has led Tantric workshops internationally for the last 10 years. He is a master body-worker with 22 years experience in numerous healing modalities. His diverse backgroud includes Reiki Master, Polarity Therapy, Body Talk, Advanced Medical Qi Gong, Bowen Technique, Sex-to-Super Consciousness Training, Neuro-structural Integration Technique, and he was also a disciple of Tantric Master, Osho for 21 years. Nityama also leads a successful private practice in San Rafael, CA.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Emotional Eating: Feeding Those Feelings Part 2

Stress and emotional eating


It won’t surprise you to know that stress, and how you react to it, can be tangled up in your eating patterns. Stress presses your body’s panic button, and unleashes a cascade of internal chemical reactions that affect your feelings and your body. Stress activates your fight-or-flight response with the release of adrenaline and cortisol. This process can alter your digestion and your relationship with food. If you stay stressed for long periods, your body’s daily cortisol cycle will spiral out of whack, upsetting the normal internal conversation. Chronic stress allows these effects to continue indefinitely.


While we all have stress in our lives, each of us will respond to it differently and that includes how, when, and what we choose to eat. If a woman believes that showing her feelings is a sign of weakness, she might use food to hide that fear. Some women become obsessive-compulsive, and use strict food management to gain a sense of control over a stressful situation, especially one which is ongoing. Others retreat from stress, taking comfort in their favorite foods.

Whether we are using well-loved foods to calm ourselves, or depriving ourselves of them as punishment, we are preoccupying ourselves with food to prevent unwanted feelings, including — but not limited to — the big ones: anger, fear, despair, and shame.

Snack Food Groups

Type - Emotional Addictive Factor

Bready - Relieves feelings of insecurity and soothes dissatisfaction

Chewy - Relieves tension/stress and need to slow down and unwind

Creamy - Helps satisfy need to be nurtured and comforted

Crunchy - Helps release anxiety and social pressure

Salty - Redirects anger, frustration and violence

Sugary - Helps satisfy the need to give and/or receive love



How Does Emotional Eating Soothe Negative Feelings?



Eating does several things to relieve anxiety and other negative emotions:

  • Food changes the chemical balance in the body. Some foods increase endorphin levels, which in turn creates a sense of happiness or contentment.

  • We associate being full with comfort. Fullness increases comfort, which counteracts negative emotions. And if a person eats past fullness to discomfort, the physical sensation distracts the mind from other problems.

  • Eating takes time that might otherwise be spent thinking negative thoughts. A person uses even more time in preparing food and cleaning up after eating.

  • Celebrations usually involve food, and a person may therefore be conditioned to be in a more celebratory mood when eating.

How to regain control of your eating habits






Though strong emotions can trigger cravings for food, you can take steps to control those cravings. To help stop emotional eating, try these suggestions:



  • Learn to recognize true hunger. Is your hunger physical or emotional? If you ate just a few hours ago and don't have a rumbling stomach, you're probably not really hungry. Give the craving a few minutes to pass.

  • Know your triggers. For the next several days, write down what you eat, how much you eat, when you eat, how you're feeling when you eat and how hungry you are. Over time, you may see patterns emerge that reveal negative eating patterns and triggers to avoid.

  • Look elsewhere for comfort. Instead of unwrapping a candy bar, take a walk, treat yourself to a movie, listen to music, read or call a friend. If you think that stress relating to a particular event is nudging you toward the refrigerator, try talking to someone about it to distract yourself. Plan enjoyable events for yourself.

  • Don't keep unhealthy foods around. Avoid having an abundance of high-calorie comfort foods in the house. If you feel hungry or blue, postpone the shopping trip for a few hours so that these feelings don't influence your decisions at the store.

  • Snack healthy. If you feel the urge to eat between meals, choose a low-fat, low-calorie food, such as fresh fruit, vegetables with fat-free dip or unbuttered popcorn. Or test low-fat, lower calorie versions of your favorite foods to see if they satisfy your craving.

  • Eat a balanced diet. If you're not getting enough calories to meet your energy needs, you may be more likely to give in to emotional eating. Try to eat at fairly regular times and don't skip breakfast. Include foods from the basic groups in your meals. Emphasize whole grains, vegetables and fruits, as well as low-fat dairy products and lean protein sources. When you fill up on the basics, you're more likely to feel fuller, longer.

  • Exercise regularly and get adequate rest. Your mood is more manageable and your body can more effectively fight stress when it's fit and well rested.

If you give in to emotional eating, forgive yourself and start fresh the next day. Try to learn from the experience, and make a plan for how you can prevent it in the future. Focus on the positive changes you're making in your eating habits and give yourself credit for making changes that ensure better health.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Female/Male Yin/Yang Feminine/Masculine Part 1

Discover the TRUTH about or edcation system, "self worth," self image, male sexuality and female sexual freedom.




Shantam Nityama has led Tantric workshops internationally for the last 10 years. He is a master body-worker with 22 years experience in numerous healing modalities. His diverse backgroud includes Reiki Master, Polarity Therapy, Body Talk, Advanced Medical Qi Gong, Bowen Technique, Sex-to-Super Consciousness Training, Neuro-structural Integration Technique, and he was also a disciple of Tantric Master, Osho for 21 years. Nityama also leads a successful private practice in San Rafael, CA.

Monday, November 9, 2009

Emotional Eating: Feeding Those Feelings Part 1

Emotional eating is the practice of consuming large quantities of food -- usually "comfort" or junk foods -- in response to feelings instead of hunger. Experts estimate that 75% of overeating is caused by emotions.


Many of us learn that food can bring comfort, at least in the short-term. As a result, we often turn to food to heal emotional problems. Eating becomes a habit preventing us from learning skills that can effectively resolve our emotional distress.

Depression, boredom, loneliness, chronic anger, anxiety, frustration, stress, problems with interpersonal relationships and poor self-esteem can result in overeating and unwanted weight gain.

By identifying what triggers our eating, we can substitute more appropriate techniques to manage our emotional problems and take food and weight gain out of the equation.

How Can I Identify Eating Triggers?

Situations and emotions that trigger us to eat fall into five main categories.

  • Social. Eating when around other people. For example, excessive eating can result from being encouraged by others to eat; eating to fit in; arguing; or feelings of inadequacy around other people.

  • Emotional. Eating in response to boredom, stress, fatigue, tension, depression, anger, anxiety or loneliness as a way to "fill the void."

  • Situational. Eating because the opportunity is there. For example, at a restaurant, seeing an advertisement for a particular food, passing by a bakery. Eating may also be associated with certain activities such as watching TV, going to the movies or a sporting event, etc.

  • Thoughts. Eating as a result of negative self-worth or making excuses for eating. For example, scolding oneself for looks or a lack of will power.

  • Physiological. Eating in response to physical cues. For example, increased hunger due to skipping meals or eating to cure headaches or other pain.
To identify what triggers excessive eating in you, keep a food diary that records what and when you eat as well as what stressors, thoughts, or emotions you identify as you eat. You should begin to identify patterns to your excessive eating fairly quickly.


How to Tell the Difference



There are several differences between emotional hunger and physical hunger, according to the University of Texas Counseling and Mental Health Center web site:




  • Emotional hunger comes on suddenly; physical hunger occurs gradually.When you are eating to fill a void that isn't related to an empty stomach, you crave a specific food, such as pizza or ice cream, and only that food will meet your need. When you eat because you are actually hungry, you're open to options.




  • Emotional hunger feels like it needs to be satisfied instantly with the food you crave; physical hunger can wait.

  • Even when you are full, if you're eating to satisfy an emotional need, you're more likely to keep eating. When you're eating because you're hungry, you're more likely to stop when you're full.

  • Emotional eating can leave behind feelings of guilt; eating when you are physically hungry does not.

Comfort Foods

When emotional hunger rumbles, one of its distinguishing characteristics is that you're focused on a particular food, which is likely a comfort food.

"Comfort foods are foods a person eats to obtain or maintain a feeling," says Brian Wansink, PhD, director of the Food and Brand Lab at the University of Illinois. "Comfort foods are often wrongly associated with negative moods, and indeed, people often consume them when they're down or depressed, but interestingly enough, comfort foods are also consumed to maintain good moods."

Thursday, November 5, 2009

MELANIN WHAT IT IS WHAT IT AINT PART 2

Continued from PART 1








Monday, November 2, 2009

10 ways to control high blood pressure without medication Part 2

Cont'd from Part 1

6. Avoid tobacco products and secondhand smoke

On top of all the other dangers of smoking, the nicotine in tobacco products can raise your blood pressure by 10 mm Hg or more for up to an hour after you smoke. Smoking throughout the day means your blood pressure may remain constantly high. In addition, chemicals in tobacco can damage your arteries and cause fluid retention, both of which can raise your blood pressure. And like alcohol, tobacco products can interfere with the effectiveness of your blood pressure medications.




Also, avoid secondhand smoke. Inhaling smoke from others also puts you at risk of health problems, including high blood pressure and heart disease.

7. Cut back on caffeine


The role caffeine plays in blood pressure is still debatable. Drinking caffeinated beverages can temporarily cause a spike in your blood pressure. And some studies show that people who drink caffeine regularly have a higher average blood pressure, suggesting that caffeine might have a long-term impact. But other studies show you can develop a tolerance to caffeine so that it doesn't affect your blood pressure.


To see if caffeine raises your blood pressure, check your pressure within 30 minutes of drinking a cup of coffee or another caffeinated beverage you regularly drink. If your blood pressure increases by five to 10 points, you may be sensitive to the blood pressure raising effects of caffeine.

Regardless of your sensitivity to caffeine's effects, doctors recommend you drink no more than 200 milligrams a day — about the amount in two cups of coffee.

8. Reduce your stress

As with caffeine, the influence of stress on blood pressure isn't settled. Stress or anxiety can temporarily increase blood pressure.

You need to know what stresses you before you can try to reduce your stress. Take some time to think about what causes you to feel stressed, such as work, family, finances or illness. Once you know what's causing your stress, consider how you can eliminate or reduce stress.

If you can't eliminate all of your stressors, you can at least cope with them in a healthier way. Take breaks for deep-breathing exercises. Get a massage or take up yoga or meditation. If self-help doesn't work, seek out a professional for counseling. Try meditation or ask your doctor about purchasing a machine that helps teach slow deep breathing.

9. Get regular health care

If you have high blood pressure, you may need to monitor your blood pressure at home. Learning to self-monitor your blood pressure with an upper arm monitor can help motivate you. Talk to your doctor about home monitoring. Make sure you ask about what size arm cuff you should use and what time of day you should measure your blood pressure. Also, a record of your blood pressure readings helps your doctor know if your medications are working or if they need to be adjusted.

Regular visits to your doctor are also likely to become a part of your normal routine. These visits will help keep tabs on your blood pressure - and ensure that you don't neglect other health concerns.


Have a primary care doctor. People who don't have a primary care doctor find it harder to control their blood pressure. If you can, visit the same health care facility or professional for all of your health care needs.

Visit your doctor regularly. If your blood pressure isn't well controlled, or if you have other medical problems, you might need to visit your doctor every month to review your treatment and make adjustments. If your blood pressure is under control, you might need to visit your doctor only every six to 12 months, depending on other conditions you might have. People who have frequent blood pressure checks at their doctor's office are more likely to control their blood pressure than are those who go a year or more between visits.

10. Get a support system

Supportive family and friends can help improve your health. They may encourage you to take care of yourself, drive you to the doctor's office or embark on an exercise program with you to keep your blood pressure low.


Talk to your family and friends about the dangers of high blood pressure. If they understand the potential complications of uncontrolled high blood pressure, they're more likely to support your efforts to change unhealthy lifestyle habits.

If you find you need support beyond your family and friends, consider joining a support group. This may put you in touch with people who can give you an emotional or morale boost, and who can offer practical tips to cope with your condition.

The payoff: Healthier living



For most people, these are not drastic changes in daily life, but they offer significant rewards. When your blood pressure is under control, your risk of life-threatening complications, such as heart attack and stroke, decreases and you may live a longer and happier life.










Saturday, October 31, 2009

MELANIN, WHAT IT IS WHAT IT AINT PART 1

Sister Deborah Maat teaches on the relationship between Melanin, Kemet/Egypt, Medu Neter, and Black Consciousness.






Stay tuned for Part 2

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

10 ways to control high blood pressure without medication Part 1

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/high-blood-pressure/HI00027

You don't always need prescription medications to lower your blood pressure. By making these 10 lifestyle changes, you can lower your blood pressure and reduce your risk of heart disease.


If you've been diagnosed with high blood pressure (a systolic pressure of 140 or above or a diastolic pressure of 90 or above) or with prehypertension (a systolic pressure between 120 and 139 or a diastolic pressure between 80 and 89), you might be worried about taking medication to bring your numbers down.

Don't assume medications are the key to controlling your high blood pressure (hypertension). Lifestyle plays an important role in treating your high blood pressure. If you successfully control your blood pressure with a healthy lifestyle, you may avoid, delay or reduce the need for medication.
Here are 10 lifestyle changes you can make to lower your blood pressure and keep it down.

1. Lose those extra pounds and watch your waistline .

Blood pressure often increases as weight increases. Losing just 10 pounds can help reduce your blood pressure significantly. In general, the more weight you lose, the lower your blood pressure. Losing weight also makes any blood pressure medications you're taking more effective.
Besides shedding pounds, you should also keep an eye on your waistline. Carrying too much weight around your waist can put you at greater risk of high blood pressure.

In general, men are considered at risk if their waist measurement is greater than 40 inches (102 centimeters, or cm). And women, in general, are at risk if their waist measurement is greater than 35 inches (88 cm).
You and your doctor can determine your target weight and the best way to achieve it. Your doctor might recommend that you eat healthier foods, exercise and change self-defeating behaviors, such as late-night snacking or big servings at meals.

2. Exercise regularly



Regular physical activity — at least 30 to 60 minutes most days of the week — can lower your blood pressure by 4 to 9 millimeters of mercury (mm Hg). And it doesn't take long to see a difference. If you've been sedentary, increasing your activity can lower your blood pressure within just a few weeks.
If you have prehypertension, exercise can help you avoid developing full-blown hypertension. If you already have hypertension, regular physical activity can bring your blood pressure down to safer levels.

Talk to your doctor about developing an exercise program tailored to your needs and medical conditions. Your doctor can help determine whether you need any exercise restrictions. Even moderate activity for 10 minutes at a time, such as walking and light strength training, can help.
But avoid being a "weekend warrior." Trying to squeeze all your exercise in on the weekends to make up for weekday inactivity isn't a good strategy. If you have uncontrolled hypertension or heart problems, those sudden bursts of activity could actually be risky.
3. Eat a healthy diet
Eating a diet that is rich in whole grains, fruits, vegetables and low-fat dairy products and skimps on saturated fat and cholesterol can lower your blood pressure by up to 14 mm Hg. This eating plan is known as the DASH (Dietary Approaches to Stop Hypertension) diet.



It isn't easy to change your eating habits, but with these tips, you can adopt a healthy diet:
- Evaluate your eating style. Keep a food diary, even for just a week, to assess your eating patterns and habits. Monitor what you eat, how much, when and why. This can shed surprising light on your true eating habits.



- Consider boosting potassium. While most Americans get too much sodium, which increases their blood pressure, they often get too little potassium. Potassium can lessen the effects of sodium on blood pressure. The best source of potassium is food, such as fruits and vegetables, rather than supplements. Some packaged food products list potassium on the labels. Talk to your doctor about the potassium level that's best for you.

- Be a smart consumer. Make a shopping list before heading to the supermarket to avoid picking up junk food. Read food labels when you shop, and stick to your healthy-eating plan when you're dining out, too.

-Cut yourself some slack. Although the DASH diet is a lifelong eating guide, it doesn't mean you have to cut out all of the foods you love. It's OK to treat yourself occasionally to foods you wouldn't find on a DASH diet menu, like a candy bar or mashed potatoes with gravy.
If you're craving something sweet, reaching for dark chocolate may be a good way to indulge without risk of raising your blood pressure. Research suggests that flavonol, a substance found in cocoa beans and dark chocolate, may improve blood flow and lower your blood pressure. But, even the healthiest chocolate adds calories to your diet, so treat yourself sparingly.

4. Reduce sodium in your diet

Even a modest reduction in the sodium in your diet can reduce blood pressure by 2 to 8 mm Hg. And bigger cutbacks mean greater reductions in blood pressure. To decrease sodium in your diet, consider these tips:

- Calculate your sodium consumption. Keep a food diary to estimate how much sodium you consume each day. You may be surprised at how much you're taking in. Most healthy adults need only between 1,500 and 2,400 milligrams (mg) of sodium a day. But if you have high blood pressure, are older than 50, are black, or have such chronic conditions as heart disease, kidney disease or diabetes, you may be more sensitive to sodium. In that case, aim for less than 1,500 mg of sodium a day.

- Read food labels. Look at the sodium content before you buy. If possible, choose low-sodium alternatives. Even some foods you think are healthy, such as some vegetable juices, may contain surprisingly high amounts of sodium.




- Eat fewer processed foods. Potato chips, frozen dinners and cured meats, such as bacon and processed lunch meats, are high in sodium.

- Don't add salt. Just 1 level teaspoon of salt has 2,300 mg of sodium. Use herbs or spices, rather than salt, to add more flavor to your foods.


- Ease into it. If you don't feel like you can drastically reduce your sodium consumption suddenly, cut back gradually. Your palate will adjust over time.

- Eat more fresh foods. Fruits, vegetables and unprocessed grains contain little sodium.



- Check your water softener. Water softeners are sometimes a hidden source of sodium in your water at home — although cold water to the kitchen often isn't softened. If your water softener adds a lot of sodium to the water you drink, you might want to consider switching to a different water-purification system or buying demineralized water for drinking and cooking.

5. Limit alcohol consumption


Alcohol can be both good and bad for your health. In small amounts, it can help prevent heart attacks and coronary artery disease and potentially lower your blood pressure by 2.5 to 4 mm Hg. But that protective effect is lost if you drink too much alcohol — generally more than one drink a day for women and more than two a day for men.

If you drink more than moderate amounts of it, alcohol can actually raise blood pressure by several points. It can also reduce the effectiveness of high blood pressure medications.

- Track your drinking patterns. Along with your food diary, keep an alcohol diary to track your true drinking patterns. One drink equals one 12-ounce (355 milliliters or mL) beer, one 5-ounce glass of wine (148 mL) or one 1.5-ounce of 80-proof distilled spirits (30 mL). If you're drinking more than the suggested amounts, cut back.


- Consider tapering off. If you're a heavy drinker, suddenly eliminating all alcohol can actually trigger severe hypertension for several days. So when you stop drinking, do it with the supervision of your doctor or taper off slowly, over one to two weeks.

- Don't binge. Binge drinking — having four or more drinks in a row — can cause large and sudden increases in blood pressure, in addition to other health problems. Don't abstain during the week and make up for it on the weekend.



Part 2 Soon Come.....

Ayi Kwei Armah - The Awakening

Ayi Kwei Armah was born in 1939 to Fante-speaking parents in the twin harbor city of Sekondi Takoradi, in western Ghana. On his father's side Armah was descended from a royal family in the Ga tribe.

Armah attended the prestigious Achimota College. In 1959 he went on scholarship to the Groton School in Groton, Massachusetts. After graduating, he entered Harvard University, receiving a degree in sociology. Armah then moved to Algeria and worked as a translator for the magazine Révolution Africaine. In 1964 Armah returned to Ghana, where he was a scriptwriter for Ghana Television and later taught English at the Navarongo School. Between the years 1967 and 1968 he was editor of Jeune Afrique magazine in Paris. In 1968-70 Armah studied at Columbia University, obtaining his M.F.A. in creative writing.

As an essayist Armah has dealt with the identity and predicament of Africa. His main concern is for the creation of a pan-African agency that will embrace all the diverse cultures and languages of the continent.

























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